It was awful, there's no excuse. We're all having a shit time of it so why would anybody want to make somebody else feel bad for no reason?
It was awful, there's no excuse. We're all having a shit time of it so why would anybody want to make somebody else feel bad for no reason?
I think I may add “I don’t know what to do, I’m only a hairdresser” () to my collection of responsibility abdication clauses
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I think I may add “I don’t know what to do, I’m only a hairdresser” () to my collection of responsibility abdication clauses
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It reminds me when I worked with a designer who got into a lot of trouble with the accounts department because she was given a £3000/season research budget and she overspent by 11k. She refused to speak to the CFO who was furious at her and made me be the go between. When I asked her what she wanted me to tell him she screamed ‘tell him I don’t understand, I’m not an accountant I’M AN ARTIST’.
)Had a SHIT day. Not to put too fine a point on it, despite daily showering and antipers etc I got sat down by HR and informed that I fucking stink. So that was nice!
Had the same information about a year ago, tried switching brands, stuff like that, thought maybe it was sorted but of course you can't smell yourself (something about how your brain filters it out) and people don't give feedback about these matters, they just let you get on and stink then complain to HR and probably everyone else that you don't do basic hygiene (which is untrue)
Ditching the latest antipers deo then in favour of a weapons grade antipers that you apparently apply about once a week(!) in conjunction with plain deo. It's just a shame about the lack of FRIENDS at that place so no one to ask for feedback. Try, wait a year, see if I get a Quiet Word again.
Spent most of the day wanting to crawl into a hole, cry, and not come back out.

I had the same thing happen at work over the summer, because who’d have thought working and pottering about in a non ventilated, windowless building all day, unable to whip the deodorant out because you’re public facing would mean you smell a bit!
I’d be half tempted to overdo it the other way if I were you. Let them all choke on LYNX![]()
Had a SHIT day. Not to put too fine a point on it, despite daily showering and antipers etc I got sat down by HR and informed that I fucking stink. So that was nice!
Had the same information about a year ago, tried switching brands, stuff like that, thought maybe it was sorted but of course you can't smell yourself (something about how your brain filters it out) and people don't give feedback about these matters, they just let you get on and stink then complain to HR and probably everyone else that you don't do basic hygiene (which is untrue)
Ditching the latest antipers deo then in favour of a weapons grade antipers that you apparently apply about once a week(!) in conjunction with plain deo. It's just a shame about the lack of FRIENDS at that place so no one to ask for feedback. Try, wait a year, see if I get a Quiet Word again.
Spent most of the day wanting to crawl into a hole, cry, and not come back out.
Even if it is true, it shouldn't be handled with a sit down meeting. Thats just a way to make one feel bad. If I had a coworker who had that issue, even if we weren't close, I would try to bring it up in a friendly way, to save them the embarrassment. Thats what should have happened.