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Do swear words in daily threads still trigger office obscenity filters so no one can access them or am I making that up?

MORNING! :D
 
A colleague in work is starting to REALLY piss me off and the excuse is always “WELL IM JUST DIRECT”.

That’s all well and good SUSAN until you weaponise your directness to just be a TWAT.
 
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ZenGiraffe said:
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Honestly :D

I’m direct! I tell people what I need but I don’t go about it in a way where the other person feels demoralised. It’s my new pet hate I’ve decided

“I’m DIRECT” is as much of a red flag as the classic “I’m just an empath” :eyes:
 
big ron said:
I'm just direct is just an excuse for not changing the fact you're a fucking dick.
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Exactly, and it IMMEDIATELY feels defensive. If you have to be defensive maybe address WHY!
 
untilted said:
“I’m DIRECT” is as much of a red flag as the classic “I’m just an empath” :eyes:
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Every single person I’ve met who calls themself an empath is highly emotional and not at all in tune with how others actually feel
 
RJN said:
Every single person I’ve met who calls themself an empath is highly emotional and not at all in tune with how others actually feel
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Yep. It’s a red flag. I’m now trying to decide in my head who I hate more. Ms Direct or Ms Empath.
 
I think so. I’ve thought it through.

The empath is much more likely to emotionally manipulate you. They can reveal themselves in a more subtle way.

The direct twat is just someone who can be avoided.
 
yoga is so hard. I did 3 classes last week (I had a week free trial at a place I definitely can't afford normally) and they all killed me
 
I only did 20 minutes from a YouTube video. But it's not like just going to the gym, which is fairly self explanatory and mostly uses the muscles and motions you're used to. It's complicated and forces you to find and maintain poses that are largely unnatural (although in my sexual youth I was probably capable).

I feel like it's something I could persist at. If I could just work at it over the shitty cold months I'll be more than happy.
 
Got unreasonably annoyed when someone walking the opposite way on a narrow pavement used the road then barked a sarcastic "you're welcome!!!" on her way past when I didn't immediately thank her

THANK YOOUUUUU such a kind gesture not walking into me!
 
There's a huge correlation between heralding yourself as an empath and sharing memes on Facebook about narcissism, I've noticed.

And usually misunderstanding both terms.
 
GinAg (39) said:
Christ beginning yoga is a sharp reminder of how out of shape I am.
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Mrs. Indie has been doing yoga for about five years and could probably reliably fold up into a suitcase.

I'm not unfit, but i'm as flexible as a plank of wood. Yoga is not the exercise for me.
 
I really want to get into yoga, I'm deffos not inflexible, I can get my palms on the floor when touching my toes. I'm just scared of yoga women.
 
I quite like yoga, when I do it at home and think of it as just stretches I'm doing along to youtube.

It's the communal leotard wearing yummy mummying yoghurt weaving aspect of it which I don't get on with.
 
lolly said:
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I tried one yoga class last year and farted and felt too embarrassed to go back.

One of my colleagues is a yoga practitioner though and has been encouraging me to give it another go. I prefer low intensity exercise (I know yoga CAN be high intensity) so maybe I should try again…
 
untilted said:
I tried one yoga class last year and farted and felt too embarrassed to go back.

One of my colleagues is a yoga practitioner though and has been encouraging me to give it another go. I prefer low intensity exercise (I know yoga CAN be high intensity) so maybe I should try again…
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Moopy gold pls
 
lolly said:
There's a huge correlation between heralding yourself as an empath and sharing memes on Facebook about narcissism, I've noticed.

And usually misunderstanding both terms.
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Ever since I got a bit curious about narcissism (whether I'm guilty for example) this same doctor has been appearing on my YouTube recommendations *constantly*.

I didn't like her much, she's like (not in these words but) "oh if you have narcissism and want to be better hard luck it's incurable and you're a nasty fuck for life sorry" and from the recommendations, has a rather suspicious obsession with identifying narcissists and all their traits. I dunno why but she just literally looks like one herself, I think it must be the face that is half grin half contempt in every thumbnail.
 
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