I don't know what people expect out of the education system. Yes, there are vital academic topics that unpack the effects of gender-oppressive societies in great detail, but a fair and just society will ALWAYS start on the individual face-to-face level. Kindness and compassion are not qualities that you can simply mass produce by institutionalizing children. It HAS to start from parents and the immediate community because they have the child during their most impressionable years when their brains are most receptive and 'malleable'. Those first 1000 days of a child's life set the tone for their behaviors, what they perceive as 'normal', and the language they use to interact with other people.
The "education system" as we know it has only existed for 300-400 years. Society does not need, and has never needed, anything more than good parenting to produce respectful, humble, and healthy children. Teachers can absolutely play an significant role in a child's development, but the best it can hope to achieve is supplement and reinforce the behaviors they are already learning from home. What public education CAN'T do is somehow "correct" antisocial or unhealthy behaviors. I think it can help guide the child, but ultimately teachers and social workers don't have the familial bond OR the working capacity to be fully responsible for it.