straightorbroken
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I wouldn't be giving a neighbour a spare key. This isn't the 90s.

Has he been on the ozempic? I know he's leaned up for a boxing match (against Stephen Bear) but he does look very skinny faced.Oh not Andy Lee porn. He's so botoxed and skinny now.
Has he been on the ozempic? I know he's leaned up for a boxing match (against Stephen Bear) but he does look very skinny faced.
Also broadly helped by the characters (bar the neighbour - and maybe, who knows, the gender critical friend, but she was in it so little this episode that she's still just a bit 2D) not all just feeling like total pieces of work.
) my high horse but this person’s commentary also spoiled the lot without warning 
In the end the gender critical friend - or at least, that aspect of her character - felt pretty incidental to the whole thing. She felt a bit beyond the ones that don't quite get pronouns: there are enough snidey jibes at the younger trans character that she's definitely got a bee in her bonnet. She definitely didn't quite feel like the actual picture of proper online TERF warriors, who I doubt could even be capable of coexisting in a room with someone trans and letting things just be sometimes in the way her character was in a few scenes.I saw someone say today that the supposedly “gender critical” character is portrayed as generally BENIGN and willing to coexist with the transes and they/thems of the world as long as they’re permitted a bit of banter - rather than the actively hostile horror shows they are in reality. Basically the critique was that Russell has mistaken his middle-aged friends who don’t really understand pronouns for TERFs and that portraying that movement as fairly harmless in a piece of media is actually damaging. If true then I probably agree - but can probably take some solace in the fact that that lot are almost certainly frothing at the mouth about being portrayed as tolerant, reasonable people.
I probably should also watch it before mounting () my high horse but this person’s commentary also spoiled the lot without warning
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Agreed. Not least because things like the ending saying a Google search for Leo would suggest he was a convicted paedophile within 18 months kind of nodded towards that kind of thing anyway.Watching some of RTD's interviews to promote the show (he's always good value) it struck me that he kept talking about how Tip Toe is about the violence online spilling over and infecting real life.
I think the final ep would have been more successful and believable had Clive posted online about Leo 'grooming' his son, with that then turning into an online mob spiralling into real life murder - which Clive could have still been a part of. Things could escalate believably that way, and better make the point. It's the gymnastics the script had to do to take the men from eating ASDA pizza to hanging Leo in the space of the footie half time that stopped the series from sticking the landing for me.
Finally finished. It just felt very heavy handed and as if it were applying homophobia from 30 years ago to today. RT biting off more than he can chew. This could have been a very different show and still have these issues and conflicts arise. I was hungry for a big old queer space drama and won't be duped by Russell again - that's 2 shows in a row I've ended up being loathe to finish.
I do agree, but if I'm being kind to Russell you could see it as a metaphor for one of the main themes of the show: the LGBTQ+ community has been encouraged to come out, be visible, be open. Which has been great, while it's been tolerated. But we've given away our keys to the straight world, said "look at us!". And now they know who we are and they still don't like us.I just didn't buy into the stupid decisions the characters made. I was just rolling my eyes because no one would have behaved like this in real life - starting with the decision to give your neighbour (who you don't trust or like) the key to your fucking house!
The LGBTQ+ community has been encouraged to come out, be visible, be open. Which has been great, while it's been tolerated. But we've given away our keys to the straight world, said "look at us!". And now they know who we are and they still don't like us. In this essay I will
I think the world (well, in Britain at least) is broadly fine with us, which is where some of the plot stacking in the final episode fell down for me. I just don't believe everyone in that room at the end would have happily gone along with a lynching, even crowd psychology aside.I do agree, but if I'm being kind to Russell you could see it as a metaphor for one of the main themes of the show: the LGBTQ+ community has been encouraged to come out, be visible, be open. Which has been great, while it's been tolerated. But we've given away our keys to the straight world, said "look at us!". And now they know who we are and they still don't like us.
Am I being too kind to the writing or am I onto something?