That’s not being a TERF. We shouldn’t get hysterical every time someone says they believe that trans women shouldn’t compete in physical sports. I don’t think that that is automatically being anti-trans and is actually counter productive to the larger issue of trans people being given a fair shake in society. Sports is such a tiny tiny part of the wider issue.
I believe if activists want to die on this cross of trans rights including the non-flexible issue of trans people playing in physical sports, trans people are never ever going to get the widespread support they need to be treated the same as everyone else. Why can’t we keep the sports issue as separate? It’s incredibly complex. Treating trans people with respect and kindness and getting equal rights is equally as un-complex. Or at least, it should be.