Do you like Madonna?

Do you like Madonna


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Forming your opinion on ANYONE purely based on their social media presence is reductive. Madonna or otherwise.

Her persistence was always inevitably going to be perceived as honorable by some and tiresome by others. I really don't think there's anything wrong with that.
 
er persistence was always inevitably going to be perceived as honorable by some and tiresome by others. I really don't think there's anything wrong with that.
well given that it's so clearly founded in a widespread and deep rooted misogyny (and not only among men but among many women too), and supports the idea that women should shut up, go away or be DEMURE past a certain age (finally a real application of the word), I'd say it's pretty problematic!
 
well given that it's so clearly founded in a widespread and deep rooted misogyny (and not only among men but among many women too), and supports the idea that women should shut up, go away or be DEMURE past a certain age (finally a real application of the word), I'd say it's pretty problematic!
I think misogynistic audiences are often the most negative and the loudest ones for sure. But I know people who just want her to "go away" simply because she makes music they think is shit. Or because they've just grown bored of her. Or because they think she's run out of ideas. But they'll often just ignore her. They're not nearly half as annoying and rabid as undercover misogynists.
 
I think misogynistic audiences are often the most negative and the loudest ones for sure. But I know people who just want her to "go away" simply because she makes music they think is shit. Or because they've just grown bored of her. Or because they think she's run out of ideas. But they'll often just ignore her. They're not nearly half as annoying and rabid as undercover misogynists.
But that, in itself, is misogyny. If they don’t care for what she’s doing they don’t have to listen to it or follow her on social media. Calling for her (or any woman for that matter) to just “go away” reeks of covert misogyny.
 
But that, in itself, is misogyny. If they don’t care for what she’s doing they don’t have to listen to it or follow her on social media. Calling for her (or any woman for that matter) to just “go away” reeks of covert misogyny.
It really isn't. Sometimes it's about the one person, not their entire demographic. I want Meghan Trainor to go away because she's shit. Just her.
 
But that, in itself, is misogyny. If they don’t care for what she’s doing they don’t have to listen to it or follow her on social media. Calling for her (or any woman for that matter) to just “go away” reeks of covert misogyny.

That's far too simplistic a take. Not every negative opinion of a female is rooted in misogyny.

I want Ed Sheeran to "go away" as much as I do say, Meghan Trainor. Neither are reflective of gender.
 
But why don’t those people also accept that there is a market out there for said faves and not everyone feels the same way?
Probably the same reason why some people can't accept that not everybody wants to be in their fave's market because not everybody feels the same way as them.
 
I don't buy that many (or any) of the ones vocal in their hatred of M just happen to hate her music. we know exactly how and why she triggers people.
 
Just to say I've disliked her as a person for a VERY LONG TIME, way before Instagram even existed. I just find her grating and unrelatable. If you enjoy that, then fine. Her personality rarely invades my life.

I've always given her music a fair chance. And to be fair very few artists get to 20 years into their career and still make amazing music. She overachieved and I respect her for that and enjoy the art.

I don't especially like Mariah, but her best tunes are 13s. I don't understand the hero worship of Taylor Swift, let alone why she still has a career as I find most of her music unlistenable, but I'm still pleased there's a woman holding fort as the biggest star in the world.

It's not misogynistic. I don't like or don't think about a huge amount of male performers. Women are far more interesting. Men are dull.
 
The real question is "Did Penelope deliberately post an ambiguous question to provoke debate?"
 
I don't buy that many (or any) of the ones vocal in their hatred of M just happen to hate her music. we know exactly how and why she triggers people.
Exactly. And I'm not referring to Moopy gay chat lounge crowd here. The mainstream hatred and vilification of Madonna has become normalised since the early 1990s. It's now pretty much part and parcel of discussing her. It's never just about her music.
 
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Just to say I've disliked her as a person for a VERY LONG TIME, way before Instagram even existed. I just find her grating and unrelatable. If you enjoy that, then fine. Her personality rarely invades my life.

I've always given her music a fair chance. And to be fair very few artists get to 20 years into their career and still make amazing music. She overachieved and I respect her for that and enjoy the art.

I don't especially like Mariah, but her best tunes are 13s. I don't understand the hero worship of Taylor Swift, let alone why she still has a career as I find most of her music unlistenable, but I'm still pleased there's a woman holding fort as the biggest star in the world.

It's not misogynistic. I don't like or don't think about a huge amount of male performers. Women are far more interesting. Men are dull.

This entirely. Completely with you on the Taylor critique too.
 
So, to expand… when I said “Madonna is not a singer” what I am really saying is that she’s not vocally talented enough to interest me. I really like singers.

I do think she has had great songwriting moments though. No interest in her instagram escapades so couldn’t even comment on it. I’m completely unaware of it.
 
So, to expand… when I said “Madonna is not a singer” what I am really saying is that she’s not vocally talented enough to interest me. I really like singers.
But you're diminishing her again. She IS a singer. You may not like her voice - and that's fine. But she is a singer.
 
There is undoubtedly some misogyny amongst the wider non-Moopy media.

But not all. If it were just misogyny, why haven't Kylie or Cher or other disco queens faced the same level of hostility?

We all know Madge has a reputation for not always being very nice to people, and one can imagine there are a lot of journalists and commentators in that cohort. I daresay there have always been a lot of people very eager for opportunities to bring very specifically Madonna down a peg.
 
But not all. If it were just misogyny, why haven't Kylie or Cher or other disco queens faced the same level of hostility?

Because they're not as confrontational and provocative as Madonna is.
 
We all know Madge has a reputation for not always being very nice to people,
And what does that have to do with anything? Would we be having this discussion if a male artist had a 'reputation' for not always being nice to people?
Or is that something we reserve for women?
 
And what does that have to do with anything? Would we be having this discussion if a male artist had a 'reputation' for not always being nice to people?
Or is that something we reserve for women?
Probably if it was a gay man.

For most straight men you'd probably never hear that it happened in the first place.
 
And what does that have to do with anything? Would we be having this discussion if a male artist had a 'reputation' for not always being nice to people?
Or is that something we reserve for women?

Exactly as I elaborated in the part you didn't quote.

She will not have racked up much goodwill amongst certain quarters of the media.

Who said anything about reserving it for women?

Perhaps not in the music business, but James Corden is a good example of a male celebrity who is not getting away with it.
 
Because they're not as confrontational and provocative as Madonna is.

This is a hot take btw. I admire MAdge for not playing along, being all coy and nice. The media has always been rude to her and I may not like her, but again, she makes it up with her music, performances, looks, and videos; basically trailblazing every possible road so all your faves could RUN!
 
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Because they're not as confrontational and provocative as Madonna is.

You can't concede someone is confrontational, and then completely divorce that and insist all criticism is solely down to her gender.

Confrontational people attract more hostility than non-confrontational people obviously.
 
You can't concede someone is confrontational, and then completely divorce that and insist all criticism is solely down to her gender.

Confrontational people attract more hostility than non-confrontational people obviously.
And confrontational women attract more hostility than confrontational men.
 
She is, was and always will be Queen MUTHA Madonna.

The back cat was flawless. Absolutely flawless.

Ray of Light is a work of art. Vogue is the greatest pop song ever, except for Dancing Queen and I Feel Love.

When she toured, I didn't care about her performance, I just enjoyed listening to her talk. I love her fearlessness, her nerve, her relentless self-belief. I find her inspiring, for whatever flaws she may have.

So, yes, to answer the question, I like Madonna.
 

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