Tell me something which bores you…

Football, or really most sports

Fellow nerds like my boss who cross the line into TOO nerdy and harp on about how the AMD 21469B can be undervolted by 0.1mV more than the 21469A so they can tweak it 2C cooler etc etc completely oblivious to my eyes glazing over. I don't give a single solitary fuck about anyone spending valuable time chasing little numbers or memorising every model number of CPU and regurgitating them at me. I don't care about overclocking or liquid cooling. I just want it to work and do cool stuff like VR.
 
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Sheena said:
Actually, as a complete aside, they don't bother me AT ALL. They're just a vessel for sauce for me. I could happily live without them. So kinda, YEAH.
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Same. They’re just there as a side to fill you up. Elevated by vinegar and sauce, but really I’d prefer a plate of pickled onions or something.
 
Sheena said:
And do NOT get me started on "SIDES" :rolleyes:
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I have seen people using it on grindr and thought it was a joke or something. Didn’t know the meaning :o

About 80% of the time I feel I’d be a side, so much love to all my side bros (and fuck you @Sheena ).
 
RaspberrySwirl said:
I have seen people using it on grindr and thought it was a joke or something. Didn’t know the meaning :o

About 80% of the time I feel I’d be a side, so much love to all my side bros (and fuck you @Sheena ).
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But why do we have to LABEL everything? I hate "TOP/BOTTOM" enough. There's been times in my life when I want to fuck, times when I want to be fucked, times when I've bottomed for DAYS and times when I've not had to douche for MONTHS. Just see where it all takes you. Why shut yourself off from one thing and label it?
 
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But why do we have to LABEL everything? I hate "TOP/BOTTOM" enough. There's been times in my life when I want to fuck, times when I want to be fucked, times when I've bottomed for DAYS and times when I've not had to douche for MONTHS. Just see where it all takes you. Why shut yourself on from one thing and label it?
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Oh absolutely. I just meant how nice it is to know that there are others that don’t (always) care for anal.
 
RaspberrySwirl said:
Oh absolutely. I just meant how nice it is to know that there are others that don’t (always) care for anal.
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Nothing wrong with that at all. But also, to those people, don't shut it off (LITERALLY). You might find yourself in a relationship or situation where it feels right, acceptable and as an entirely consensual thing, works. I just don't see that we need a new label for it.
 
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The "greedy bottom" thing is entirely different though. Stop being so fucking dull, get off your phone looking for your next cock and stop pouncing on everything that comes anywhere near you.

NO ONE CARES.
 
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big ron said:
People who stop drinking and make it their entire personality.
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Oh God yes. There’s some media campaign right now and I saw Suzanne Shaw talking about UK “drinking culture” and peer pressure etc. It might just be our generation as Gen Z is mostly a lot more sensible, but come on, you’re about 40 now - if you don’t want to drink, just don’t and don’t make a big deal of it.

I spent the whole day in the pub with friends last Friday and switched to soft drinks after a few. Think my mates were mostly pleased as it meant the rounds were cheaper.
 
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Oh God yes. There’s some media campaign right now and I saw Suzanne Shaw talking about UK “drinking culture” and peer pressure etc. It might just be our generation as Gen Z is mostly a lot more sensible, but come on, you’re about 40 now - if you don’t want to drink, just don’t and don’t make a big deal of it.

I spent the whole day in the pub with friends last Friday and switched to soft drinks after a few. Think my mates were mostly pleased as it meant the rounds were cheaper.
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I've got mates that don't drink, they just get on with it. I've also got a couple that make such a big deal out of it, and start acting holier than thou about people who do drink. STOP ATTENTION SEEKING.
 
The other side of that I suppose, and something I do find boring as a person that's never been a big drinker (and doesn't go on about it before anyone says it :tongueout:), is people who DO give you a hard time if you're choosing not to drink (and try and get you to keep up with them etc).
 
Sheena said:
But why do we have to LABEL everything? I hate "TOP/BOTTOM" enough. There's been times in my life when I want to fuck, times when I want to be fucked, times when I've bottomed for DAYS and times when I've not had to douche for MONTHS. Just see where it all takes you. Why shut yourself off from one thing and label it?
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TWIN BEDS AND A BUDGERIGAR
 
People going on about how great Beyonce is. She really isn't that special.
 
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Sheena said:
But why do we have to LABEL everything? I hate "TOP/BOTTOM" enough. There's been times in my life when I want to fuck, times when I want to be fucked, times when I've bottomed for DAYS and times when I've not had to douche for MONTHS. Just see where it all takes you. Why shut yourself off from one thing and label it?
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Oh god yeah and I don't know if it's mostly a furry thing (which is where most of my gay experience is) or wider to the community but everyone insisting you have to pick the role of "Dom" or "Sub". More something that frustrates me than bores me. On top of that you have those who conflate them as top=Dom and bottom=sub. Like to be the one receiving sometimes? *rubber stamp* SUB. Must like being ordered around, growled at and maybe degraded.

I feel like the only one who isn't into bloody BDSM... I just want to have fun treating each other as equals. Position wise I'm a switch but because I'm shy and "kinda submissive"... *Rubber stamp* BOTTOM

Puts a bit of a strain on my relationship, we're open and kind of need to be but I like to get my share of my own BF and I do sometimes.. but he's a proud sub+bottom and only really into Doms+tops, is one of those who conflates them and keeps saying "we're both bottoms and that's a problem" and I'm like "only a problem to you, I just wanna make love as equals with my BF :("
We do, but it's more of a relationship upkeep chore to him unfortunately than something he actively wants to do. I guess I just don't understand why people love these boxes so much and get frustrated that they don't frame things in the same way I do.


What's a side then, is that another word for switch/verse?
 
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Kate said:
Me on the dating apps last year :octy:

Join my VANILLA PRIDE movement!
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Vanilla actually being the username of my BF despite actually being strongly into the Dom/sub dynamic, one of them "greedy bottoms" and far from vanilla in reality :D

I love him in any case so yes both forms of vanilla pride
 
We joined an ENM app and while I get it's very kink friendly some of the people on there are so narrowly specific its mind numbing. What ever happened to spontaneity?
 
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