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I only got to half of the episode this morning, you girls are getting me all excited.
 
That was awful but also riveting to watch. Diana is indeed evil, there’s no way she’s coming back.

Can’t wait for next week.
 
That was amazing to watch. One for the ages.

Also tbh I don’t understand what they expected Erika to say. She’s not going to do anything that could be looked at as admission of guilt.

I don’t mind that they pushed her cause her clique has done the same to other women but I don’t think it would be wise to give earrings while she’s still being sued. We’ve all watched legal shows.
 
The preview for next week is amazing. “can I have the Kris Jenner tequila” evil Rinna knew what she was doing.
 
Possible reunion spoilers from the bravo_chicks insta account:

- Apparently no Diana
- Rinna and Kyle as Andy bookends on the sofas :angry:
- No proof about any inappropriate Kathy Hilton stuff
- All Housewives returning for next series except Diana
- Rinna apologising and using mother's death as excuse for vile behaviour etc.

Seems like a damp squib
 
It’s the Baby Jane dynamics with her sister, the way she flips between gas lighting Kim, to suddenly being her most loyal defender if it allows her to be cruel to someone else (I’m up to the Brandi fight) just knowing in an episodes time she’ll be back to tormenting her again. She just seems utterly DEAD INSIDE.

Mauricio would absolutely get it though.
 
It’s the Baby Jane dynamics with her sister, the way she flips between gas lighting Kim, to suddenly being her most loyal defender if it allows her to be cruel to someone else (I’m up to the Brandi fight) just knowing in an episodes time she’ll be back to tormenting her again. She just seems utterly DEAD INSIDE.
You're in for a ride. It only gets worse.. :eyes:
 
It’s the Baby Jane dynamics with her sister, the way she flips between gas lighting Kim, to suddenly being her most loyal defender if it allows her to be cruel to someone else (I’m up to the Brandi fight) just knowing in an episodes time she’ll be back to tormenting her again. She just seems utterly DEAD INSIDE.

Mauricio would absolutely get it though.
Interesting. Yours is the general fan opinion but I don’t really agree. Kim is my favourite though.
 
Kyle has a lot of neurosis and can slip into mean girl territory easily. However imagine having Big Kathy as a mother, super rich Kathy Hilton and Kim with her endless addiction issues as older sisters. The trauma that they must have inflicted on her.
 
As a lifelong Kyle Rich super fan, I am
fascinated by most of her behaviour, including stealing houses, and what I’ve always been drawn to is the fact she’s a very complex character with moments of brilliance undermined by some huge flaws in her diamond. None of the other characters in any RH series are so compelling to me and it’s very easy to write her as only Vile Kyle or a Mean Girl. I think she’s those things and also a lot of other good and equally compelling things involving being scared, actually being very funny on purpose, getting drunk in France, doing the splits, bees, helicopters, and wearing kaftans. She has a strong moral core and is happy to abandon or forget said moral core whenever convenient for her which is pure delight for me.

My theory on Kyle Richards

1. Kyle famously finds the relationship with her sisters impossible.
Kyle is a therapist’s dream. She’s a great example of the youngest member of a family being the emotional care-taker or guardian (including her mother who was a PIECE). This is reflected in things like: how she is proud of all her daughters having a good relationship and talking about them all sleeping in the same bed until they’re 45; needing replacement sisters (Lisa V as a replacement Kathy, Teddi as total 180 from the mess of Kim). I think the family dynamic of a matriarch wanting three famous daughters is incredibly damaging - as the youngest Kyle would have felt like the less successful spare part for a lot of her life.

I’m sure Kim never imagined that she would end up the least successful as the golden child of the family and I genuinely think she hates Kyle for flipping the script and getting a hot rich husband while she got on with her substance abuse and poor life management. I also think Kathy hates that Kyle didn’t have to resort to sending Portia to an abusive correction camp or having kids (and now Kathy herself) who reveal that the Hilton family are mostly likely homophobic and, especially, racist. Kathy is fawned over by white gays but she is a very suspect character.

In the classic Drama Triangle, Kim is the Victim but sees Kyle as the Persecutor. However, Kyle see herself as the Rescuer - so when her attempts to Rescue Kim fail, she turns into a Victim and allows Kim to persecute her. Kim sees Kathy as her Rescuer - but Kyle has neither of them in the role of Rescuer for her. Which is why it all gets so messy because KATHY is the Persecutor - whatever causes her RAGE is why they are a dysfunctional sisterhood and Kyle and Kim have both developed coping strategies to deal with her.

2. She converted to Judaism as a single mum with a half-Arabic child to marry a Mexican Jewish guy. I can imagine that this wasn’t a walk in a park for her and I suspect that she would have faced a lot of ‘sisterly advice’ on these topics which wouldn’t always have been helpful or had good intent, particularly from Kathy. I think Kyle has a core belief that I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR YOU and doesn’t get that back from either of her sisters, whether that’s Mo setting up his own business and LOL stealing Rick’s clients much to Kathy’s displeasure or getting no thanks for managing Kim’s finances or behaviour for a lot of her adult life. In effect I think she is the Black Sheep - but really it SHOULD be Kim but everyone protects her for whatever reason.

3. She has a very clear set of values around taking care of people, fun, loyalty, family, success, expensive handbags, being in control, being at the centre. Some of her best moments come when her values get in her own way and show up as massive flaws and inherent self-contradictions. I don’t see Kyle as being hypocritical in the way others do - I think her value set is often at odds with itself and leads her to behave in ways that can show up as antithetical to her values: being self-centred, showing up with loyalty to everybody and nobody, being hostile, avoiding conflict when it suits her, enjoying conflict when it involves others and is always keen to stir the pot to see what happens and then running away if she’s taken it too far.

This season I have had real moments of being personally very disappointed in some of Kyle’s behaviour - mostly her choosing Diana over Sutton, her on-going inability to acknowledge Crystal as a valuable person and the double standards therein - but I just wouldn’t have Bev Hills without her.
 
As a lifelong Kyle Rich super fan, I am
fascinated by most of her behaviour, including stealing houses, and what I’ve always been drawn to is the fact she’s a very complex character with moments of brilliance undermined by some huge flaws in her diamond. None of the other characters in any RH series are so compelling to me and it’s very easy to write her as only Vile Kyle or a Mean Girl. I think she’s those things and also a lot of other good and equally compelling things involving being scared, actually being very funny on purpose, getting drunk in France, doing the splits, bees, helicopters, and wearing kaftans. She has a strong moral core and is happy to abandon or forget said moral core whenever convenient for her which is pure delight for me.

My theory on Kyle Richards

1. Kyle famously finds the relationship with her sisters impossible.
Kyle is a therapist’s dream. She’s a great example of the youngest member of a family being the emotional care-taker or guardian (including her mother who was a PIECE). This is reflected in things like: how she is proud of all her daughters having a good relationship and talking about them all sleeping in the same bed until they’re 45; needing replacement sisters (Lisa V as a replacement Kathy, Teddi as total 180 from the mess of Kim). I think the family dynamic of a matriarch wanting three famous daughters is incredibly damaging - as the youngest Kyle would have felt like the less successful spare part for a lot of her life.

I’m sure Kim never imagined that she would end up the least successful as the golden child of the family and I genuinely think she hates Kyle for flipping the script and getting a hot rich husband while she got on with her substance abuse and poor life management. I also think Kathy hates that Kyle didn’t have to resort to sending Portia to an abusive correction camp or having kids (and now Kathy herself) who reveal that the Hilton family are mostly likely homophobic and, especially, racist. Kathy is fawned over by white gays but she is a very suspect character.

In the classic Drama Triangle, Kim is the Victim but sees Kyle as the Persecutor. However, Kyle see herself as the Rescuer - so when her attempts to Rescue Kim fail, she turns into a Victim and allows Kim to persecute her. Kim sees Kathy as her Rescuer - but Kyle has neither of them in the role of Rescuer for her. Which is why it all gets so messy because KATHY is the Persecutor - whatever causes her RAGE is why they are a dysfunctional sisterhood and Kyle and Kim have both developed coping strategies to deal with her.

2. She converted to Judaism as a single mum with a half-Arabic child to marry a Mexican Jewish guy. I can imagine that this wasn’t a walk in a park for her and I suspect that she would have faced a lot of ‘sisterly advice’ on these topics which wouldn’t always have been helpful or had good intent, particularly from Kathy. I think Kyle has a core belief that I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR YOU and doesn’t get that back from either of her sisters, whether that’s Mo setting up his own business and LOL stealing Rick’s clients much to Kathy’s displeasure or getting no thanks for managing Kim’s finances or behaviour for a lot of her adult life. In effect I think she is the Black Sheep - but really it SHOULD be Kim but everyone protects her for whatever reason.

3. She has a very clear set of values around taking care of people, fun, loyalty, family, success, expensive handbags, being in control, being at the centre. Some of her best moments come when her values get in her own way and show up as massive flaws and inherent self-contradictions. I don’t see Kyle as being hypocritical in the way others do - I think her value set is often at odds with itself and leads her to behave in ways that can show up as antithetical to her values: being self-centred, showing up with loyalty to everybody and nobody, being hostile, avoiding conflict when it suits her, enjoying conflict when it involves others and is always keen to stir the pot to see what happens and then running away if she’s taken it too far.

This season I have had real moments of being personally very disappointed in some of Kyle’s behaviour - mostly her choosing Diana over Sutton, her on-going inability to acknowledge Crystal as a valuable person and the double standards therein - but I just wouldn’t have Bev Hills without her.

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Look; the simple truth of it all is that Kyle wanted LVP's MVP Queen position and now she got it and she can't handle it.
LVP did sniper from the side with old school chess game style, and Kyle just can't pull that sort of thing off.

But I like the fact that she's so inept at it and I wouldn't want her out yet.
May the Crystal/Sutton/Garcelle Trinity continue to chip away at Kyle and her minions (Dorit I am the most disappointed in; she had so much potential that chile) as it makes great viewing.

That being said, Rinna and Erika's time is up. They'll keep Erika on because of the legal drama and I suspect if/when she gets her Jen Shah moment is when she'll go.
But Rinna needs to go.
 

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