What compliments do you like?

I DO like being called hot/cute/sexy/handsome/pretty/something else.
 
I like appearance-wise ones, haha.
The compliments that stay with me are some form of praise for either talent/creativity/intelligence/knowledge/wisdom :D or something that I truly worked with effort on. :)🪄
 
I never believe the person is sincere when I get compliments. I get complimented for knowing my stuff at work a lot but I just say thankyou for those, it's the personal sort that make me incredibly uncomfortable, I always feel like I'm being set up to be the butt of a joke or something.
 
I find that 99% of compliments are just people looking to further their own agenda somehow. So no, they can fuck off.
 
Compliments are a really integral part of my belief system, and an essential factor to consider when interacting with me. If you compliment me I will pretty much give you whatever you want and the best part is that I don’t really care if you mean it or not. Compliments are a powerful tool for forgiveness in my culture - if you murdered my family but said I had nice hair I’d struggle to settle on one fixed emotion.

In terms of what I like having complimented most, I’d say as a rule of thumb I respond best to (in order) :

1. Anything looks based
2. Personality
3. Being reminded of great things I’ve done

If I don’t feel I’m getting enough compliments from a friend then I will send out the occasional reminder that I do cancel friendships from time to time.
 
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Suomi said:
Compliments are a really integral part of my belief system, and an essential factor to consider when interacting with me. If you compliment me I will pretty much give you whatever you want and the best part is that I don’t really care if you mean it or not. Compliments are a powerful tool for forgiveness in my culture - if you murdered my family but said I had nice hair I’d struggle to settle on one fixed emotion.

In terms of what I like having complimented most, I’d say as a rule of thumb I respond best to (in order) :

1. Anything looks based
2. Personality
3. Being reminded of great things I’ve done

If I don’t feel I’m getting enough compliments from a friend then I will send out the occasional reminder that I do cancel friendships from time to time.
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Oh wow @Suomi this post is so insightful, I think it might be one of your best this year. I've never really met someone like you that is intelligent and just so good looking too. Have a great Christmas and I'm sure all those little children you've helped to grow and develop this year will too thanks to your input. You take care xoxo
 
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I've whoopie cushioned into middle age and no longer go outside without a balaclava, Elaine Vassal face-bra or Madeline Ashton face bandages, so I'll post some compliments I've received from the one and only GALA through the years: that I always notice things; that I am her favourite fan; that I should write for music magazines/she always loves reading my comments; that I looked both like a boy and girl (this was in the myspace blond(e) mullet era); that I made her dad cry when she read out a message I had sent (and it was a throwaway comment, bless her, but I don't actually do gushing to my idols I'll have you know); and that's probably it. Feel free to top GALA everyone, but via PM as I don't like getting it in public :ken: / :disco:
 
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