I'm a history nerd and have loved the "Kings and Queens" for as long as I can remember. I was bought all the kiddy facr books, was taken on trips to the Tower and Palaces with my grandad (a fellow geek) and it plays an important part in my history and enjoyment at school. As I got older, while understanding the more problematic virtues of worshipping a rich family who did nothing but simply be born, I felt that the queen herself always seemed like a nice enough woman who understood her duty and I quite enjoyed the pomp, the tourism, the traditions etc and wasn't exactly in favour in stopping all dead "just 'cause".
That all turned for me when she died. While I had an overwhelming sense of the excitement of "living through a historical moment", the 10(!) days of national mourning, with certain faculties not being allowed to carry on as normal while the proles were indeed all expected to carry on was excessive. That and the overlong, frivolous funeral all seemed so overindulgent and at a time where so many of us were struggling, it really highlighted how out of touch and old fashioned the whole concept is. The comparisons to seeing Koreans bawling as the Red Army marches in favour of their Dear Leader and his rockets were spot on.
Also sidebar: but my mum made me watch it with the family and it was SO BORING.
The queen's death and transition to Charles may have been a good time to start winding it down and changing some of the more expensive aspects of the family. Sell off some assets, do some good for the public, I don't know, something good for publicity maybe? But seems to be a whole of doubling down instead and I feel like the Coronation is just going to be another sickingly lavish affair that won't go down too well with the younger generation. (And yes my mum's asked us all over for it and I expect it to be BORING LIKE THE FUNERAL).