There were only 25 hours of Sunday

I can honestly say I’d rather be depressed than have no sexual drive, it would only make me worse.
 
I can honestly say I’d rather be depressed than have no sexual drive, it would only make me worse.
Oh I had the drive. It was the inability to finish that was the problem. So I just had a raging boner but couldn't finish the job.
 
I really think I'd take the chance to revel in my own grime.

You'd think. In particular, I was interested to see how my hair would look/feel. But I was more than ready to end the experiment come the hour. I feel like I had some kind of film over me, even tho' I'd had a bedbath.
 
I realised I definitely have a low sex drive when I'm stressed. Since heathcliff got really poorly 3 weeks we've had sex one. And that was only because I felt I should because Mandy kept asking. But then I actually really enjoyed it 🤷🏻‍♀️

I definitely like sex more when I'm on holiday away from everything.
 
My sex drive has always fluctuated but I don't mind the times at all when it's non-existent. The only issue I have is that others seem to take it as a personal slight when you aren't in the mood.
 
My sex drive has always fluctuated but I don't mind the times at all when it's non-existent. The only issue I have is that others seem to take it as a personal slight when you aren't in the mood.
Yes this! I'm quite happy not having sex when I'm not in the mood. But it's hard when I have to keep saying "no, I'm tired/stressed/need to shower/Heathcliffs in the way" etc...

So now I just say "don't even think about it, when I want it I'll let you know "
 
I never imagined when I was younger that I wouldn't want it ALL OF THE FUCKING TIME like I did then, but as you get older, it DOES fade. Well, for men, anyway.
 
I've definitely had less of a sex drive recently, and it's coincided with all my moving stress/ongoing work stress. The amount of willing slatterns on Grindr I've had to TURN DOWN since moving here :(
 
I wouldn't say mine has faded, more I'm in control of it. I can say there was a 10 year period where absolutely everything in my mind revolved around fucking.
 
I've just had my first shower in 48 hours, which has been a fucking delight. You don't realise how much you like things like your own cleanliness!

When I was in hospital I'd showered on the Wednesday morning at home before I was kept in and I ended up having to beg to be allowed a shower on the Saturday. I was supposed to have the nurse present but I got my towels and everything together and deliberately waited until she was otherwise engaged with another patient for at least ten minutes, locked the door behind me and just got on with it. I got told off for it but there was no way another woman was showering me, or watching me shower, when it really wasn't necessary.

I was shocked that cleanliness of patients seemed to be way down the priority list while I was in there. Nobody else on my bay had a shower in the five days I was in, I'm sure some of them didn't brush their teeth from one day to the next!
 
Well I dont think I’m vegetarian any more, or that mock chicken was incredibly good at the mock part. Fucking tasty though.
 

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